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My sister is stupid
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Julesy Jun 2 2008, 03:49 PM Post #1
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my sis doesnt work today so she came over crying.

im only posting this cause she left and I feel I was a bit harsh on her.

shes seeing someone who has a girlfriend and sees her only when HE wants to. Shes looking for more, but I told her, if you put up with it thats all you will get.

She keeps making excuses for him saying oh hes just waiting to leave his gf

I said, "dude, you left your ex bf who got a HOUSE and a CAR for you and it took you all of what? A weekend?" "He cant do the same?"

If he really wants to be with you, he would be. Quit being strung along. That is, unless you like it. Be treated shitty. Wondering where he is and texting him mad like an idiot.

BTW its my bro-in-laws friend of a million years and Ive met him numerous times.

I feel bad but no one else will tell her the truth. If she wants him as a bf and he has a gf he wont leave, how is that gonna work?
Theres no logic in that unless she wants to be the 'other woman' which she doesnt.

God some girls are fucking stupid. I hate to be related to such nonesense.

do you think I was too harsh?
I said other things I wont post but basically the same thing.



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Taman Jun 2 2008, 03:58 PM Post #2
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You are absolutely right. I would have said the same. :rocks This is a matter of choice. Your sis can be sad and stick around in a relationship that is selfish and has no future or she does what is right and tells him to grow some balls or piss off.
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Julesy Jun 2 2008, 04:04 PM Post #3
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thats basically what I did but if she follows through.. I doubt it.
I dislike pathetic women :alondria
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alondria Jun 2 2008, 04:27 PM Post #4
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i'd have said the same thing too
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Denovissimus Jun 2 2008, 05:16 PM Post #5
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:rocks
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Julesy Jun 2 2008, 05:42 PM Post #6
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thanks guys.
I just felt bad cause I made her cry.
Sometimes you have to make someone cry to realize how futile thier efforts are?
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Denovissimus Jun 2 2008, 06:07 PM Post #7
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Julesy Jun 2 2008, 06:08 PM Post #8
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good to know
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Noname Jun 2 2008, 06:09 PM Post #9
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shes seeing someone who has a girlfriend and sees her only when HE wants to


Clue number one. Only when he wants to?! You tell him to go piss off! (As Anne said!)

You did the right thing, Jules.

Hmph! Some girls, some girls..... :priest
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Julesy Jun 2 2008, 06:10 PM Post #10
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what?
some girls are stupid?

yes, and I happen to be related to a dumbass.
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Noname Jun 2 2008, 06:13 PM Post #11
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I am sure only when it comes to men.
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Jane Jun 2 2008, 07:54 PM Post #12
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You are right Jules, but her only crime is to like/love someone. It makes people blind as they say!

Another point to tell her is how can she trust someone who cheated on someone else with her? How can she know he wouldn't do the same to her if he did leave the girlfriend?
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la anaconda de chocolatee Jun 2 2008, 08:55 PM Post #13
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jules you were in the right, you say the same things to me and others and such. I am sure your sister knows that you will always say your honest opinion, and if she knows you half as well as we here do, she HAD to have known that you would have said at least some of what you said to her, she must have needed to hear it, wanted to hear it so she sought you out.

If people truely do not want other opinions/advice then they shouldnt ask for it, even if it is not what they want to hear.
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Rodney Jun 2 2008, 11:02 PM Post #14
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Takes a deep breath.

That first sentence from Julesy's post made my blood boil.

Get it through your THICK skulls idiots! THEY FUCKING NEVER EVER LEAVE THE ONE THEY'RE WITH FOR YOUR DUMB ASS!

Have some fucking dignity! Shiiiiiiiit.
We all have emotions making us think about doing something irrational and stupid. But YOU are the one in control of actually following those feelings!

Jules, of course you feel bad about making her cry-she's your sister! But damn it, she fucking needs to hear this.
Even if it hurts her. There is no point screwing around with someone else's partner. YOU KNOW it's bad and nasty no matter how much you sugarcoat it. i have nothing good to say about shit like that.
Unless someone is being honest and says: "I like being the other person and screwing with other people's partners, therefore being 50% accountable for a potential break up and definite heart-ache " Just own up to it. if not: Get the fuck out of this shit and learn how to be alone with yourself for a while untill you fucking realise that you don't have to play second fiddle to nobody! And that sleeping with other peoples partner behind their backs is not clever, it's not funny;it's nasty

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Julesy Jun 3 2008, 01:26 AM Post #15
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thanks again you guys.

I did tell her straight. seems Im the only one who will. It IS nasty as long as the partner they are cheating on doesnt know.
EWWW! NASTY!

If it was a open relationship and they knew what they were getting into (all partners) sure. Whatever floats your boat. Otherwise its gross/mean/degrading/fucked up.

as far as her being in 'LOVE' how can you love someone who wont give you all thier time or attention? Only when they want and feel like it??
Thats not love, thats infatuation, lust. Not love.


Im very dissappointed in her that she would tolerate a man such as this.
I can perhaps understand if he was rich or eveh hot looking. Then MAYBE, MAYBE (i doubt anyway) I could perhaps on some level understand it.

Hes ugly though. Two kids and listens to Eminem. UGH!
Id eat my own barf before Id go on a date with him. :barf
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la anaconda de chocolatee Jun 3 2008, 01:32 AM Post #16
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no one listens to Eminem anymore!
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Julesy Jun 3 2008, 01:44 AM Post #17
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he does, or he did. either way.... :barf
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la anaconda de chocolatee Jun 3 2008, 01:52 AM Post #18
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you know Jules, I am being like your sister, though possibly not as bad, I mean I am not sure if I am as into Miguel as she is into this guy or has deep into a situation with him. I have only seen him like 5 times outside of work and I havent fucked him but still, I do have some feelings for him. And that will get me sucked in even more and allow for shit to linger if I keep letting these feelings hang around or get stronger.

I am not going to wait to see him again to talk to him. If he does say come over thurs, I will tell him it ends here and now if you are not going to move out NOW and I am transfering to one of the other chilis with or without you.

And if he doesnt come, that is fine too. I will have to decide on my own which Chilis I wanna transfer to, regardless of what he wants to do and just make that decision and just do it. And I need to not care if he comes and I get to talk to him or if he doesnt. I need to just transfer cause that is what I need to do.

If I do leave and he doesnt, and after that happens he realizes he made the wrong choice or he finally gets his balls and follows through on what he says he wants to do (ie leave the cooze) he knows where I live, he probably will know which chilis I went to. It is not like he cant find me if he wants to try to do things right. But I am not going to expect this to happen either. :curtsy
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Julesy Jun 3 2008, 02:06 AM Post #19
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She claims she hasnt slept with him either which I find hard being one of my sisters. lol.

But I just think you should do what you feels best for you. I can tell you all the reasons you shouldnt, but ultimately its up to her.

i just posted this today cause she came over and was crying about it.
I feel bad but she knows better. Its not that hard to understand.
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la anaconda de chocolatee Jun 3 2008, 02:14 AM Post #20
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I know that my main problem is that I am a daydreamer. I have always been that way. As soon as anything slightly possible creeps up in my life, whether it is a man, or a good job opportunity, or anything I go into daydream mode and I fantasize all the time about the best possibl outcomes of the situation. Of course, it never ends up turning out as wonderful in reality as it does in my head.

and I always tell myself, dont fantasize you will just jinx it but my mind never stops. It wont let me! It is like I always have a movie going on in my head
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