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Abortion
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Julesy Feb 7 2007, 02:58 PM Post #21
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gee every topic eventually turns to fucking. :ha
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Noname Feb 7 2007, 03:14 PM Post #22
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this is the garden.

anyway, i believe it takes two. although a women is caring the child, and God bless em for their strength, they couldn't get pregnant without the man's help, ergo, the child is apart of the man as well. to abort something just because you have the "right" to is kind of selfish. if you don't wanna it hand it over to the father and let him take care of it! even in a one night stand!!
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Noname Feb 8 2007, 03:18 PM Post #23
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what if, in a one night stand, you killed someone who could have cured aids? brought about world peace? i know it is far fetched, but it can happen!
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la anaconda de chocolatee Feb 8 2007, 04:36 PM Post #24
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damn it! I was in the middle of writing my response and I accidentally hit something that deleted my post! :mad

What I was saying was, I am pro choice for everyone, but I am prolife for myself. The only circumstance that I would get an abortion would be if my life were in serious jepardy if I had the child, if I would die from carrying the baby to term, or if the child had a severe birth defect that was detected early, and I mean really severe like a baby who is born without a brain and only has a brain stem (there have been cases of this) then I would. But otherwise, if I were pregnant and were for some reason unable to take care of the child, I would have it but give it up for adoption cause I think about all of the heterosexual couples out there who are unable to conceive, and all of the gay couples who want kids as well. And if everyone aborted and no one ever gave kids up for adoption, these couples wouldnt have any kids to adopt. Like my sister's best friend who is 32 now, her and her husband are adopting kids cause she went through menopause when she was only 30. They already adopted a son from guatemala and are in the process of adopting a girl from there as well.

But abortions can be abused, like some women use abortion for birth control and get several abortions. That is just horrific. If you really dont want kids, then dont get yourself pregnant! HELLO! Go on the pill or better yet, make your boyfriend or your one night stand or whatever skank you are fucking to wear a fucking condom for crying out loud! Women who do that burn me up, and I wouldnt feel much sympathy for them if they got caught in the crossfire of a lunatic pro lifer. Or like here are some examples from the clients at my work.

One of the other case mangers has this client, she is in her late 30's. She already has 3 kids, one who lives in florida with his father whom she never sees. Her other two are with her, they are teenagers. Both of these kids have a lot of issues. She is not a good mother. She works, sometimes. But even so, supposedly she doesnt have lamps in her apartment, doesnt have a couch for them to sit on, even though she has a job she doesnt buy them furniture, god knows what she spends her money on. Anyway, you would think someone in their late 30's would be semi smart at that point NOT to get knocked up again. But nope, she was dating a drug dealer, got knocked up by him, and initially was planning on keeping the baby. I think she thought if she had his baby, he would stay around. Duh, he is a fucking drug dealer! You really think he is going to? Anyway, at 5 months she realizes that he is sleeping with other women and wants nothing to do with her or the baby so she wants to get an abortion. She cant bare to give the kid up for adoption. Oh no, god forbid you actually be SELFLESS instead of selfish. Well an abortion at 5 montsh costs like $2000. (I didnt even know you could get an abortion past 4 months, I didnt think you could) so she ends up getting a family member to pay for it and she has the abortion. I mean this woman was better off not keeping this child, but I think that at 5 months, she should have birthed the kid and given it up for adoption. That just pisses me off!

And another client who already has twin daughters that she doesnt even have custody of cause she can never get her act together, has been in a recovery house and while there gets knocked up by a guy there who is also an addict and has mental health issues. This woman really wanted to have the baby, but knew that her life is too screwed up right now that she cant properly take care of the kid. So she was all prepared to get the abortion. But when she sees a doctor, she finds out that there is an issue with the placenta or the way the baby is positioned in the uterus or something (I forget exactly what) but something that prevented her from getting a regular abortion. They told her that it might not be possibly for this baby to be aborted at all, but if so there is only one doctor in the area who does these types of abortions. She was referred to him but did not look into it. She saw this as a "sign" that she should have and keep this child. Again, adoption is "not an option" for her cause she is too damn selfish to give the baby up, even though it is more than evident that this kid would be MUCH better off being adopted than being raised by her. Most likely sooner or later this kid will probably end up in the foster care system.

It just pisses me off cause these are examples where these are women who clearly should not have any more kids. Yet neither one of them can bare to give the kid up for adoption, they would rather either keep the kid or abort it instead of the best option which is to give your child a much better life than what it would have with you and which obviously is also better than killing it as well.
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Julesy Feb 8 2007, 08:31 PM Post #25
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ive heard of alot of horror stories about foster care.
if i had a choice as to be born to that life, or aborted...
I wouldnt want to live a life like that.
Call me a pussy, I dont care.
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Julesy Feb 8 2007, 08:48 PM Post #26
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what if, in a one night stand, you killed someone who could have cured aids? brought about world peace? i know it is far fetched, but it can happen!


you can easily have a miscarriage or an accident that would prevent you from having "a kid who will one day cure aids" or lose a child to the same circumstances that could have become another Hitler.
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Noname Feb 9 2007, 03:08 PM Post #27
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damn, i am mad that i can't read that, michele. but i will later.
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last night at school, my classmate melissa told me that she overheard a conversation between two girls in the hair class. The one girl was telling the other one about her abortion that she just had. Melissa said that she talked about it so casually, in a way that you would tell someone about an outfit that you just purchased. She said she was even laughing about some things that she was describing, how the girl didnt know it was a "big tube that they put in you and suck the baby out" and laughed about it! Melissa said that she could not believe that this girl was talking about having an abortion in a very public place (in the lunch room) and wasnt even talking quietly and describing so casually as if it were nothing. She was horrified and disgusted. This burns me up! This girl seems like she is a canidate for using abortion as birth control, meaning that she will continue to be dumb enough to risk getting knocked up and will continue to have abortions if she does. :mad
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That is sad, Michele. But we cannot control the actions of others.
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Noname Feb 10 2007, 05:05 PM Post #30
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they call her a sinner, they call her a killer, they call her a whore.
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Auntie Maine Feb 11 2007, 02:43 PM Post #31
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Ok since yall let that cat with AIDS out of the bag then here is what I always tell folks who fuck unprotected.There are worse things you can catch from fucking than a baby.AIDS!!!! :rocks
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Noname Feb 11 2007, 08:01 PM Post #32
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I agree, Dan!!! I am going to work with AIDS patients!
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la anaconda de chocolatee Feb 12 2007, 03:25 AM Post #33
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I used to work with people with HIV.
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Sexy Zombie Feb 12 2007, 06:54 AM Post #34
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I'm pro choice.
I aprove 100% on it if:
it happend from rape/incest
the mother's life is at risk

though I am pro choice I wouldn't exactly recomend it or do it myself if it the cercomstances were possitive. I'd offer up the choice of adoption. Because I'm adopted I know first hand that adoption is a good thing if done right.
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my friend is pregnant and i found myself wishing that she would get an abortion! me! the it's not right. but this baby could ruin her life.
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Julesy Feb 12 2007, 03:05 PM Post #36
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seee Darrelle! its not all black and white.
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i know, Jules. But she's 17. ans she's laughing about it, thinking it's all dandy. she doesn't see the long term effetc of this. she might not go to college now, she might have to give up her dreams for this baby!
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Julesy Feb 12 2007, 03:11 PM Post #38
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that happens to alot of stupid young folks.
its her decision though..
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Noname Feb 12 2007, 03:12 PM Post #39
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I know. and that's what ia hate. the father is this deadbeat who just found a job. plus he's twenty one!
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Julesy Feb 12 2007, 03:13 PM Post #40
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i still dont understand how hard it is for highschoolers to NOT GET PREGNANT

its not that hard.I have sex twice a day,everyday, and we are careful and we never had a problem and its never been an issue.
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